45 Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples
Never Have I Ever is one of the fastest ways for a couple to actually get to know each other — past crushes, dating mistakes, the embarrassing texts you both still think about. Take turns reading a question out loud; whoever has done it has to admit it, and usually explain themselves.
45 questions below, pulled from the relationship-themed decks in the Never Have I Ever app. No equipment needed — just read them out loud.
- 1
Never have I ever ghosted someone just because I didn’t know how to break up.
- 2
Never have I ever dated someone who didn’t like my friends and convinced myself it was fine.
- 3
Never have I ever stayed up all night scrolling through my ex’s social media.
- 4
Never have I ever ignored red flags because they were hot.
- 5
Never have I ever made a playlist for someone who didn’t even ask for it.
- 6
Never have I ever jumped into a relationship right after a breakup with someone else.
- 7
Never have I ever said “I love you” just to avoid a fight.
- 8
Never have I ever caught feelings for someone who was super emotionally unavailable.
- 9
Never have I ever had a friend warn me about my significant other, but I didn’t listen.
- 10
Never have I ever had a crush on someone I absolutely knew I shouldn’t.
- 11
Never have I ever sent a text to the wrong person and immediately regretted it.
- 12
Never have I ever made a fake account to stalk someone on social media.
- 13
Never have I ever used a filter to look completely different in my profile picture.
- 14
Never have I ever watched someone’s story just to see what they’re up to, but pretended I wasn’t.
- 15
Never have I ever kept a journal filled with my deepest secrets and never showed it to anyone.
- 16
Never have I ever said I was busy just to avoid hanging out with someone.
- 17
Never have I ever lied about my age to get into a cooler event.
- 18
Never have I ever accidentally sent a screenshot of a conversation to the person I was talking about.
- 19
Never have I ever spent hours debating if a “hey” text meant they liked me or just wanted to chat.
- 20
Never have I ever caught feelings for my best friend and had to act like it didn’t matter.
- 21
Never have I ever sent a risky text and instantly regretted it before they even replied.
- 22
Never have I ever left someone on read for days just to see if they’d reach out first.
- 23
Never have I ever been confused about whether we were dating or just hanging out.
- 24
Never have I ever had a mutual crush with someone and both of us just pretended it wasn’t a thing.
- 25
Never have I ever found myself scrolling through old texts just to relive the feels.
- 26
Never have I ever had a “talk” about our feelings that ended up being super awkward.
- 27
Never have I ever sent a flirty text to someone I was talking to and debated if it was too forward.
- 28
Never have I ever cried while listening to sad songs about my ex.
- 29
Never have I ever stalked my ex’s new partner’s profile for way too long.
- 30
Never have I ever written a whole playlist dedicated to someone who didn’t even notice me.
- 31
Never have I ever texted my best friend about my crush at 2 AM and then deleted the messages.
- 32
Never have I ever rewatched our favorite movie alone just to feel something.
- 33
Never have I ever sent a long message to my crush and then immediately regretted it.
- 34
Never have I ever daydreamed about running into my ex and acting super cool.
- 35
Never have I ever secretly hoped my ex would text me on my birthday.
- 36
Never have I ever tried to act unbothered but was actually super bothered inside.
- 37
Never have I ever left a DM on read because I was too awkward to reply.
- 38
Never have I ever followed someone just to see their stories anonymously.
- 39
Never have I ever sent a cringe-worthy DM to my crush and then ghosted them.
- 40
Never have I ever typed out a long message and then deleted it instead of sending.
- 41
Never have I ever had a full-on conversation in DMs and then acted like I didn’t know them in person.
- 42
Never have I ever messaged someone and later regretted it because it was too forward.
- 43
Never have I ever sent a message while half-asleep and woke up to pure embarrassment.
- 44
Never have I ever had a secret account to check on someone’s profile without them knowing.
- 45
Never have I ever sent a message and then immediately questioned my life choices.